I think it is very important to understand each other’s “differences” by putting one’s thoughts into words.
Sometimes I have a tendency to become a bit persistent when something really concerns me. In such cases, I find myself trying to perfectly complete a task in a particular way by putting all my effort into it. In other words, I can concentrate really hard when I am doing my favorite work or something that I feel confident about, but I am not good at paying enough attention to errors or omissions when I am not.
There were times when other people around me couldn’t understand such behavioral patterns, and as a result there was a period when I felt dispirited and down. But I started to think that by continuing to work for GU, I can give hope to other people with similar behaviors. Moreover, I thought I can prove to the others that I can reach my potential if I really want to improve myself. All of this depended on how the manager and my colleagues appreciated my aims and agree to work together with my plan.
So, I opened my heart to them and talked about it. They were glad to know about it and started working on how they communicate with me. For example, the manager and my team colleagues began to talk to me and demonstrate things for me in the best possible way for me to understand so that I could learn how to work better and more effectively. Thanks also to their always timely follow-ups, which have been very helpful in improving the quality of my work, I became more capable in the store. That led to me assuming even more responsibilities. I am now also arranging items in the shopping area and serving customers.
The whole process also brought me the pleasant and unexpected bonus of better relationships at work. My communication with my colleagues became more open and more interactive. For instance, when I make mistakes, they simply tell me “Don’t worry! We’ll do it together” or “Let me know if there’s anything and what I can do when you need me”.
I enjoy being part of the team now. The best moments for me at work are when we achieve our performance targets by working together as a team. Unlike how I used to be, I am now sharing my joy with everyone in the team. It’s definitely better and more fun compared with when I was silently slogging away alone at my assigned task.